A night to remember!

On Tuesday, we celebrated our 2 year anniversary!

The day started late due to running errands and the fact that we like to sleep in! Finally, around 5ish, we went over to the local arboretum to take some photos. It was pretty hot and after about 20min, we had to call the photo shoot cuz we were both sweating pretty bad. Jump in the car to see the temperature outside was 106! No wonder we were warm!
We wanted to make out stay-cation somewhat romantic, so we went to our hotel room to cool down, change and head off to dinner. Enjoyed our mexican food followed by a movie. It was going wonderfully and we were heading back to the hotel when I noticed I was having somewhat frequent contractions. Now, I have the contractions occasionally and that's normal (they don't hurt-- just my uterus prepping for it's big show), but I kept having them. So we got back to the hotel and I was just trying to lay down and drink some water to relax. But after 5 painful contractions in a row, with low back pain and pelvis pressure, we decided to call the doctor!
I have to say, I love my ob/gyn clinic! I just had to call a pager, leave my number, and within 2 minutes, I was talking directly to the on call doctor. He said to come on in to get checked out, so at 12:30 am we drive over to the hospital and pray that we won't need to be calling any relatives anytime soon! Checked in and went right to an actual room because all the triage rooms were full. That was kinda nice because I hadn't been able to go to a tour of the department yet! I was gowned up, hooked up and watching the monitor. After 45min, the doctor came in and checked my uterus to find it still closed! YAY! We were both relieved and the doctor encouraged us to rest and keep an eye out for more intense labor along with discharge.
So at about 2:30am, we got back to our hotel and enjoyed the rest of the night! Things didn't quite go as planned, but it sure made for a rememberable night!

What I've Learned So Far While Being Pregnant

After talking with several women and watching "What To Expect When You're Expecting" (cute movie by the way), I'd have to say I've had a fairly easy pregnancy. But through this, I've picked up on some interesting facts that books and some websites forget to inform mom's to be. Here is my list:

• Men are scared of the Belly: Most guys really are interested/freaked-out by the bump! They want to touch it, but are to afraid to ask. They also want to make a commit, but after being told all their lives to never commit on a woman's body, they normally take the safer route and stay silent. They are also a little freaked out by any sudden grabbing of the belly or moan-- I believe most have some image of a baby popping out and realizing they have no idea of what to do.
• To help: If a guy looks interested, verbally tell him it's ok to touch the belly and let him know what he is feeling! Most have really appreciated it. Don't be hurt is a guy friend or even dad never makes a commit on your belly size. Just know he notices but want's you're happiness more than his commits to be voiced. And always be ready to reassure a guy if you have any pain that the baby is not about to pop out and let him know what you need (they also get to feel like a hero if they can save a pregnant woman from some inconvenience).
• Men become Super Hero's Around Pregnant Women: Instead of occasionally getting a door opened for me, it's become every time and quite dramatic too! It's not "Oh ya, here's the door", it's more like "Let me get the Door for You, Oh Woman with Child!".  And there is no more carrying anything around a guy! I may lift, pull, carry, hold down patients all day, but when it comes to carrying a box to my car that weighs about 3 lbs, I don't normally make it a few feet without it being ripped out my hands and carried with pride by the nearest guy.
• To help: Let them be super hero's! Let them open the doors, carry the boxes and offer up seats. You may not think you "need" it, but they need to manly ego boost. Also, they kinda feel like a giant jerk if they don't do something to help a pregnant woman.
• People are Watching You: Especially when you are getting rounder, there are more and more eyes on that wonderful bump. So you can either be nervous or have a little fun! If someone near you is watching you, waddle by them, suddenly grab your belly and let out a moan! The facial expressions are priceless!
• To Help: Have fun with the attention! Plus, you're going to have even more eyes on you and your new little one in a few weeks anyways!
• People are more shy: I was always warned to expect random people coming up to me and touching my belly. Not having a "bubble", I really didn't care if that happened. But now being 8months pregnant, I still get asked if I'm pregnant! Or people awkwardly stare at my belly wondering if they should ask! 
• To Help: Just let people know! I've got this great necklace that says "Due in August" and it really helps clarify! Or I'll just bring it up in conversation so they don't feel so nervous.
• Your Body is Not Your Own: Probably not a shocker to most, but it still catches me by surprise that I can't quite do everything that I want to do! I may have had a chill day and feel like I get enough sleep, but the next my body rebells with dizzy spells and mega water craving! I'm like "oh I want to go do this", while my body says "oh no you won't! Nap time for you!". 
• To Help: Don't try to resist. There is a small human inside of you and it takes a bit of work to grow one! Plus, your body won't be your own in a few weeks anyways!

These are just some of the top things so far! I'm sure there will be more in the next 2 months!

10 weeks and counting!

That's right! I'm in the final bouts of this wonderful pregnancy! I honestly can't really complain very much about being  pregnant-- I've probably had one of the easier ones from what I've seen or heard!

Speaking of what I've heard, people say the funniest things when it comes to pregnancy! Or even just do funny things. I've been told "You're all belly" (whatever that means!), "Wow, you're 7 months? You look good!" (am I supposed to be a slobbering mess at this time?), "Hmm, you're 7 months? You look so small for 7 months." (well the doc is measuring me at 32 weeks so I'm fine!), "Are you going to work until you deliver? Is that really safe?" (umm I don't know. Is working a top level hospital with the one of the most advanced NICU and Labor & Delivery departments safe? Yes! I just have to hop a ride in a wheelchair upstairs!), "Oh wow, how are you surviving this heat?!" (Well, I drink water and don't do any strenuous activities outside. There is also this new invention called air-conditioning!). One of my favorite moments was when I went and saw "What to expect when you're expecting" movie. There was a group of ladies in the bathroom talking about the movie, pregnancy, and babies. When I came out of one of the stalls, they all went silent and just starred. I kinda felt like I should have said "Ta-da"! I really don't get put out by any of the silly comments. In fact, they just make me smile!

Baby update: He's been kicking, turning and hiccuping like crazy here lately! I don't think I'll have to worry about kick counts being low on this fella! I am measuring at 32 weeks and his heart rate has been perfect. Stretching pains are at an all time low (nice lil break) and I'm just getting more and more excited!

Family update: My grandpa just had a heart cath and found out he needs bypass surgery. I'm super grateful that the doc talked him into doing the cath! Will be praying for him this coming tuesday along with a good recovery!

Now to figure out what to get hubby for fathers day! I think he will need at least one tacky t-shirt! ;)

First Mother's Day, plus other goodies!

This sunday was so much fun! I got home from work at 8am and saw my sister-in-law's husband working on a gift for her. Honestly, I got a little sad and pouty till I walked into my room! Alan had set up the baby dresser and on top where 4 supper cute baby outfits, a pair of baby penny loafers (which I know are unnecessary, but sooo cute), newborn swaddler with cap & rattle, bouquet of flowers, and a gift card for a pedicure! I stopped pouting and pounced on my dear hubby to give a hug... which would have worked if my hubby wasn't dead asleep and immediately reacted with his JKD defense, tossing me to the side! So I took my nap and woke up to thank him.
We drove up to see my parents for mother's day and spend the night. On the way, I enjoyed eating my chocolate covered strawberries and occasionally shouting "I'm a mom!". It was really nice getting to just hang out with them and I loved giving my mom her present of a babysono pic frame that says "love at first sight" and two baby books, you are my sunshine (my mom's fav song to sing) and spot loves his grandma! Next day was nice and chill-- breakfast with mom, meet up with some friends, register for baby stuff at babies r us and dinner! I had to hold my mom back from buying every grandma related baby item! It was a wonderful weekend (or my version of a weekend)!
Went to see my new ob md today-- love her! Super sweet and didn't comment on my weight (which is a great way to win me over). 2 more weeks until glucose screening and 3rd trimester! Can't believe things are going this fast! But I do believe our lil man is growing because i've been out of breath all day today-- I look pretty pitiful huffing and puffing while putting up laundry!

As far as other goodies go... here's some words of wisdom from an ER nurse!
1. Don't fall asleep with your arm out the window... especially if you are driving!
2. If you are a wound care nurse, be sure to check the rest of the patient and not just were the wound is. You never know what creepy crawly things lurk below!
3. If you've been trying to get a room in the hospital for several days and we keep sending you away because there is nothing medically wrong... go with the suicide route-- we have to give you a room somewhere!
4. Don't threaten the nurse... ever! Our security guards get pretty aggressive when one of their girls are threatened! And trust me, they all come to the join in the action!
5. Just don't even try to fake a seizure. We know. You can fool family and non-medical people, but you can't fool us!

That's all for now! Will try to post some pics later of more baby goodies-- almost done with my first attempt at a quilt!

24 weeks pregnant!

Chickens eat their young!

So I learned nurses aren't the only ones to eat their young today! I was checking on the chickens today and thought I could grab their water and eggs at the same time. Evidently, I'm not coordinated enough and dropped one of the eggs as I was leaving the coop. All 3 chickens jumped on the cracked egg and ate it! A little creepy and cannibal-ish, but maybe they were just really thirsty! (side note: yes I do collect chicken eggs! I'm not a country girl, but I like the chickens!)
Another creepy thing today: maternity photos! I was looking online at ideas and was really disturbed by all the naked or almost naked prego photos! Who's kid is going to want to see that when they get older?! Not my boy! I see the conversation going something like this:
Mom: Oh honey look! This was taken when I was 8 months pregnant with you!
Son: uhhh mom, you're uhhh not really wearing anything *eyes darting to avoid photo but keeps looking back. Jaw open*
Mom: oh silly, I'm completely covered! I looked pretty good back then! Right?
Son: soo... I've got to clean my room or do homework or something!
Mom: But sweety, I haven't shown you the caste of my body that we made! It worked great as a chip and dip bowl!

Again, I'm going to avoid that scenario and go with the classy pics, like "don't open until.." and hands making a heart!

All this creepy talk reminds me of a patient last weekend! As my husband so pleasantly puts it, "it's ok, she sees naked people all the time". And yes, bring a nurse does expose me to much more of people's anatomy than most see. Most of the time, it's really not a big deal and I do my best to make the patient comfortable. However, there is the occasional patient who doesn't feel awkward and personally requests a catheter (aka tube going up into the bladder). Female-no biggie, Male- creepy! So what do we do when those situations arise? Find the biggest male nurse we can and send them in to do it! Most of the time the patient changes their minds and pees in a cup! You learn early on not to get taken advantage of, but to be smart!

On a cuter note: I've got some pics of my amazing room! My husband found or made most if the furniture, installed the hardwood floors and did the crown molding! He worked extra hard to make a wonderful oasis for us! The headboard are actually two 1800's doors. The white table thing will be the changing table along with the window photo frame (I did the burlap!). There are still a few more things to go up, but it looks great so far!
Thanks for reading and have a great night!

Lessons learned from my patients

So I worked thurs-sat night this past week and throughly enjoyed it! This ER has an amazing set up and very well ran with excellent resources! But what would be an ER weekend without some very very interesting stories?!

1. Whenever playing donkey basketball, always wear a helmet and try to land in the grass if you fall! 
2. Of course it makes sense to wear steal toe boots but no helmet while riding your motorcycle. Your face may look like it went through a meat grinder, but at least those toenails won't be scratched!
3. Always keep your inhaler nearby for when you smoke weed if you have asthma. That way you don't have to wait till you get to the ER to chill out.
4. A bandaid can fix most things, but if your finger is still bleeding after cutting it open at your reception, you may want to go ahead an come to the ER. I mean, who doesn't want to spend their honeymoon with such great peeps like me?!
5. What a better way to end a date than in the ER? After all your xrays and CT scan, just jump in bed naked with your date. But keep it discrete because security doesn't approve of patients having relations in the ER!

On another note-- I've grown 2 inches since tuesday! I got a scrub top on tuesday and thought this should last me for another few weeks.... WRONG! Saturday it was so tight I could barely put things in my pockets! Time to get some open ones with T-shirts. I had to laugh a little inside when I informed some co-workers that I was pregnant-- I said I don't normally have a potbelly ;)

Priorities and Tidbits from a Nurse

Its still so crazy to me that we've been moved for only 1.5wks-- it almost feels like another lifetime. And isn't it true that when you make big life changes (college, marriage, children) that they don't tend to follow a nice spaced out order? Take for example my marriage: within two months time I graduated college, started working as a nurse and got married. Then there was a lull in time for us to catch up only to get pregnant, move to a new city, and consider different jobs for hubby! Maybe a bit of chaos is good every now and then-- at least it makes you reconsider on what things you thought important during the lull of life.
So what are my priorities? God, Family, Friends, Career. Do I live that? Not really. Do I needlessly worry and fret because of my mixed up priorities? Yes. So what do we do from here? By God's grace, be pulled out of the murk I'm in, be placed upon the firm foundation of Christ, and let others see His grace and salvation in my life (psalm 40:1-3).  Did I mention by God's grace? Just wanted to make sure that was in there a few more times! Thank God I don't have to pull myself out of destruction because I never would or could! I agree with the book of Jude and Piper at T4G, I'm amazed I'm still a Christian!

On a lighter note-- our little man is still growing and I feel those wonderful muscle tearing growths all the time! And his kicks are getting stronger all the time.... and still my husband has yet to feel them! He know's when it's daddy's hand on my belly and calms down right away! Such a good son! Although, with each new story I hear my mother in law tell me, the more I'm ready to buy a leash and extra bubble wrap for when he starts walking! Beware world, He's going to be just like his daddy as a toddler! But, he'll grow up to be such a handsome man with amazing manners who loves his mommy!

Oh ya, a friend asked me about allergies and knowing when to see a doctor sooner or later. So here is my tidbit for all moms and future moms: If you can hear "crackles" or "wheezes" when you put your kids chest or back to your ear, go see your doctor. If you can see you kids chest suck in below the sternum (end part of the ribs) when he breathes in, go to the ER. Other than that, follow the recommendation of the pharmacist and doctor on tylenol, ibuprofen and allergy medications. And please keep up with your kids shot schedule!
There, stepping off my nurse platform and back to normal. And with that, I'm going to go raid the fridge for something sweet! Adios!